I find that couples come to see me when they reach a level of dissatisfaction in their relationship that becomes concerning, or when the issues facing them start to become more than they can handle alone.

In counseling I aim to help couples find creative solutions to their differences and grow together in ways that are fulfilling for both people. We do this by identifying core issues, examining communication patterns, finding new ways to be emotionally close, and developing realistic ways to solve problems.

Below are the major areas of concern and specific issues that most couples that come to therapy face.

Communication
Conflict/arguing frequency or style
Criticism, blaming, or defensiveness
Power and control issues
Gender role expectation differences
Unresolved or reoccurring arguments
Sexual chemistry/interest problems

Emotions/Intimacy
Trust issues
Balancing separateness and togetherness
Different levels of emotional expression
Emotional explosions or breakdowns
Disconnection or coldness
Sense of tension or anger
Manipulation or aggression problems
Infidelity or other betrayal

Lifestyle
Parenting differences or problems with children
Differences in values or belief systems
Work or financial stress
Balancing home and work life
Issues with in-laws or social relationships
Partner health issue or substance abuse
Commitment issue or deciding to stay together

I also invite you to read some of my articles about relationships. I'd recommend starting with Basic Relationship Needs, Minding Your Relationship, and Romantic v Committed Love.

If you are ready to work through some of these things and improve your relationship, then I invite you to contact me today and we can get started.